So sorry things are turning downward...of course you know abouthte snooping thing...yet maybe when you have the hard evidence is the time to confront..could she be leaving it so you will find it? If I was writing those things, I would keep on me at all times. I am angry too, for you, for all that you have tried..the enormous support you have shown her through her depression. It might be the time for you now...I know that sounds so easy to say, and hard to do.
One sure thing..you are much better for having come here and learned how to cope and take it slow, she is the one really losing in the end. Take care of you and your d's.
