Quoting Jamesjohn: what might happen if you didn't move quite so many mountains for her ALL of the time? What if you were take take a break from doing this, for even just an hour or two? Maybe even a day or two?
For what means? Not sure I see where you are going with this? To be more attentive to her needs was one of my biggest and first 180's. Wouldn't that be like Andy's 180 + 180 = 360?
rjd, last summer my W was hoping that would be true ... that feelings for OM would fade and she could nuture the ones she has for me and she has tried!! In March, she started contacting OM again. Last weekend, she told me, she can't fight it anymore ... I feel she maybe has given up.
