I understand your hurt and anger. Sounds like you are where my husband is now although he doesn't have an EA to forgive me for. How difficult was it for you to make changes and see your role in the marriage? I would suggest that you give her the opportunity to see the error of her ways. I agree that you do not want to let her walk back into your life. She definitely has some changes to make. In fact, the prospect of losing my H was exactly what I needed to wake up and realize my mistakes both during the marriage and during the sep. I wish you the best of luck.
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