The best advice I got in this stage was: "You can never be happy with 50% of 100% ever." Made me realize that neither one of us was going to be happy about any split, so things went a lot quicker.
Me: 47 Pet: Kind labrador, 12 years old. Best Friend anybody could have.
Divorce final 12/07/07 No Kids
It is no longer about the divorce or about her. It's all about how I live my life now.