KAW - sorry that you hit another dip on the roller coaster.
Like the other bump that you had recently with W, I am guessing that this will resolve itself over time - hopefully sooner rather than later. Concerning what your W said about being "very emotional lately" - can you recall when she acted this way in the past and if she gave any signs that her "stage" was changing?
Extend those DB feelers out to W on occasion while you focus on yourself and D9 more. Wish that the Army would loan you one of their heavily armored minesweepers to clear a path for you!