Out of the Blue?

[kturnernc]

Quick update... again, no real changes. I am giving the wife some gentle pressure to get some of the stuff done. For instance, she has been talking that she was getting her lawyer to write up a separation agreement. That was originally mentioned about 6 weeks ago. I asked my lawyer how long it usually took... her answer... 1 week. So I asked W what status was and that if she was not moving then I would. The lawyer assured me that a separation agreement would not hurt the chances of a reconcile. That in her experience guys saw it as a mini-divorce, while the women usually did not view it as anything but paperwork. That made me feel a bit better about it.

Other than that, I have made some additional effort to do stuff with kids. Had fun with them and offered to take them more. I am trying to be flexible for the upcoming weeks, but I am at the end of a deadline and things are getting really hectic. W thinks that I am just making excuses and being difficult. I can't control what she makes of reality.

Gonna keep on keeping on i guess.