Husband's Mid-Life Crisis

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My H is not yet living with OW but left because of EA, now PA. She is a co-worker, single and 20 years younger than him. The EA started mid November and we've been S since mid January. It has all happened so fast. Sometimes I think I'll wake up and realize it has all been a bad dream. I know very well what you are going through. I'm trying to detach more and more - I know how hard it is.
Even if the divorce goes through there is always hope if you decide you still want your M. Your H will come out of his fantasy world at some point but it may be a very long time before he comes to his senses. When you do have contact with him try to be pleasant, no R talk, validate his feelings. There is not much else you can do right now but continue to live your life without him.
Hang in there! You are a wonderful person and your H will realize that.