oh I don't know, how about weekdays here and weekends at home!!!

The waxing - LOL, do you wax your lady bits?? what the full brazilian (omg)or just the bikini??

Thank you for the reassurance that he is hurting & ashamed - good i'm glad.

I had considered MLC before, his behaviour certainly pointed that way. I've been reading about infidelity. We (me in this case) must own 50% of the problems in the M, the was must also own 50% of the problems but 100% for the affair. Something was lacking for both of them, in her case (maybe) she needed some passion, in his case i'm still figuring that out.

I've just remembered a conversation i had with Saffie. I said i didn't think was having an affair b/c you here of them losing weight, buying new clothes, sharpened grooming, my h was not doing any of this, yes granted he was at the gym more but that was b/c he was meeting o/w there. He did have a new jacket, which she may have bought him, personally i don't like it, makes him look older, also he started to wear more shirts and tuck them in.....on the rare occasion he would wear a shirt, the girls would go mad if he tucked it in, that made him looked older, I wonder if she was influncing how he was dressing or if he was just doubting his dress sense/confidence - interesting.


Who is James o'connell?

I'll just stick with a brief 800m gentle warm up, need to get water fit again, start slowly, i understand you there.

x evie

Last edited by Eve pka disapptd; 03/15/08 10:49 PM.

P/A confirmed 5/03/08

03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage

T: 13
M: 8
D:20 & 17 from Previous M
S: 8 & 4
BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY
S: 13/10/07