Hi all, thank you for all your advice. Well when you dbing so hard and GAL time goes so quickly. In the past six months (wow 6 months!) I have moved into my own apartment, gone back to work and i am raising my little one year old on my own....AND it is going well. She has just started school twice a week and is loving it.
I truelly miss my h and wish he would come home but I can survive without him. I never knew I could get this far on my own. I don't think about the situation or the ow too much because if I did I would just go backwards.
I am not sure what to do about the D. He has not filed and neither have I. I was wondering if I should and then that would give me my final answer. Personally I think he will just sign the papers so he can live guilt free with his new soul mate... He is still treating me like a stranger and does not show any care or affection towards me. (That is the hardest part, 1 affair and he leaves to go to her and then treats me like a stranger) He comes twice a week to see our d but never more, not even when she is sick. He gives minimal finances, and never offers to pay the doctors bills. So at this point he is getting away with a lot.
