Wife has filed, and on we go

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Grid,

I thought she was having an A with this co-worker. She had a weekday off and was supposed to see two ladies that trained her and her GF. She hadn't had any contact with these two ladies in over a year. I tried to follow her and she caught me. The M was strained I guess because she would be sleeping all the time, I felt ignored. A couple of times she would get a weekend morning off and she would fall asleep when we were supposed to go out. I felt like I wasn't important enough to even stay awake for.

After W first left I would see her about 4 times a week. We'd go out to dinner a couple of times and I would hang out with her at D's the others. We went on a planned vacation together in August. She was supposed to move back home upon our return. She decided not to. After our return I found DB in a book store and read it. Saw that I didn't give her time or space, pursued too much and I didn't see her except once every two weeks. three weeks later she dropped the D bomb.

W wants the value of the house to be 120k. and split the equity.Talked to S27 and asked how he felt about selling the home he grew up in, he said it kinda sucks, but you have to do what you have to. W and I had planned on no vaca this summer and put the money into the house and sell it and get a smaller place, 3br house. I'll need to get a house, very few apts will let you have a dog and like you said I have too much stuff to fit in an apt.

I'm going to call about another coaching session on monday if I can get home in time. No more cardiac rehab, I graduated yesterday. Now I have to do physical therapy on my shoulder.

Mike