Ali,
I am reading a book Men,love and sex; testimonials from men about these things, and it states that all men really want to do is satisfy their woman in bed, it is a very big part of their ego, and self worth.

I keep sending TJ sexy TM's. I told him he is SO sexy to me.

They LOVE that stuff, and it make me feel good that I am providing a positive mirror for him to gaze at.

Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.