Yes, if what you are doing is working. Is it working, a new 2? And by working I don't necessarily mean is it causing your emotionally absent spouse to turn around. Is it working for you within your soul to continue on as you are? If not, Michelle suggests that you *do something different*.
~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
