today he joined me & the kids at the zoo. So what did I do to MY poor H? I left him run arround with the kids while I had a cold freddo coffee with my GFs (who were gracious enough to let him babysit their kids as well -6 in total ages 7 to 2) and then I let him buy us lunch (ordered everything on the menu)and wished him "a lovely evening at work" when we separated...