Thank you so much for the words of encouragement. I believe he is living in a fantasy world also & H really doesn't know OW that well, other than through emails, text message & phone calls. Even the mediator told me he could tell that I was a good W to H just from my actions the day of mediation. I'm so sorry to hear about your H & the OW. We do know what each other is going through, that is for sure!! How long has this gone on with your H & OW? I take it that you are not divorced yet? I have a feeling our divorce will be final by the end of this month. I'm not certain of that but I'm pretty sure it will be. So many memories, pictures, vacations, everything was all about us & I still cannot imagine my life without him. I'm really trying hard but it is not easy. I hope H will realize how lucky he was, the bad part is with H he never thinks he is wrong. So, I'm not sure, I guess it will depend on how low he gets. Thank you for responding to me & I'm so happy that we can keep in touch!
