KAW - so sorry to read about what happened last night with W.
I can relate to the way D is acting since my D (age 8) tends to get somewhat moody when she doesn't get her way. Perhaps the best thing to do is to let W know sometime this weekend that you're sorry that you hit a raw nerve and that you're there if she feels like she wants to talk about it. Don't act as a mediator between D and W - let them work things out for themselves. Listen, validate what is being said but don't offer solutions unless they ask - and even then be careful. Be your W's best friend.
