KAW...sounded like your w was in a nasty mood..but I can understand your frustrations, a 9 year old doesn't want to be rejected..especially to be tucked in..how childish of your w..sorry...I can take rejection from my h, but if he were to turn down our kids for something so simple and meaningful..I would be mad.Sorry again..Let it go and see what happens..DOes w ususally talk about things later? If you think in a few days when she is in a better mood you could mention it, give it a shot.If not, then maybe talk with your daughter and let her know it was not her that caused her mom not to want to tuck her in. Good luck