Hi BobbiJo, I guess you are in Iowa now so I don't know if you will see this for awhile. I think if is funny that your H hasn't mentioned your e-mail. That is exactly what my H would do. H never discusses anything in person that I text. If I bring something up on the phone he never brings it up again. It sounds like your H is testing the waters by asking about your plans. Trying to figure out if BBJ has more of a backbone than he does. And at least you know he didn't sleep w/ this cow!