Lan, I don't know where the term "piecing" comes from but lives are shattered by the breakup. My wife blames me for the loss of her "religion and culture" which translates to the fact that she does not feel welcome where she went before. Friends, neighbors, relatives, kids take up their battle positions. I think W has to work her way back on all these other fronts; same fear, quilt, shame, ... So besides massing troops just North of the border to keep Lan at bay she's got some on West, East and South as well.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread