hope, im so sorry for you. what a heart-wrenching blow for you! he is hoping if he gets you totally out of his life (D & NC) his guilt will ease, he is still running. hes convinced him self he is starting over. uhm, i still see it as running. this poor woman is right.
i hope you will mourn this m and start fresh with taking care of you. you see it still will be your choice in the end whether he gets to return or not.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest