How much contact when there are kids?

[whitneypinch]

It really hurts for me to get these photos. It's like I am good enough to see them and experience them with her but not good enough to talk to about us or our family.
I am trying to disconnect from her and move on. I also think it's better for all of us if I go slightly dark. In order to do that it's best for me not to send the photos. Look, she knows I love her and would like to talk about us getting back together. It's better for me to not have the ties I have with her. It may be different if she was not seeing anyone but she is.
If I am wrong here anyone please chime in.

Greg