god that would be soooo hard, but I've been prepared for that to happen as that would ease the financial stress for him. but I really don't thing my H could do that for fear of how others would look at him. unless he files first of course.

and even though they have been seeing each other for AT LEAST 1 year, he is still keeping her in the dark from EVERYONE except me

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!