I know I shouldn't have done this but watching the videos made me flip I know there is no point in the things I am doing. I need to BACK off completely unless it is to do with my D. I need to get a life. Start dating and focus on myself and wellbeing. I have read the DB books. I purchased them 6 years ago when I S from my 1st M. So I have to concentrate on me now. Has anybody gone to this length of pretending your somebody else to find out where your ex/spouse is?
Me: 41 estranged W:37 D:16 mths M: June 2006 together Sept 2004 Separated in Separate beds from end of April 2007 S: from marital home Aug 2007.
