in all actuality it would be best for them to move in together.....takes the shine right off that R! that does tend to speed up its inevitable demise. my h moved in with his ow prob sept of 06 (he will say nov...but hey im not that stupid) by march it was starting its downhill descent , even after vegas, nyc and the local nh tourist mecca


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest