Frank....let go...just let go of her life decisions right now. You've held on for so long.... I waited for so long for the 'epiphany'. I thought that there would be a day when I'd wake up and there she'd be with a flower...or gift....or softly spoken word...that this was over and 'let's get that marriage we want'.

Not happening.

I don't believe that your W is going to wake up with the epiphany either. If not.....will you be a stander? Are you a believer? Is there 'hope for reconciliation?' If so....is it months away? years away? coming at all?

Are you happy?
If happiness comes from within, what are you doing to be happy today?

Is your W XXX a need or preference? What is she telling you that YOU are to HER?

All old questions frank. Someone on my old thread started to hammer me about being on the fence. I wouldn't say your behavior is the same...but....where is FRANK? What does he want?

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;