having done this your H will not be able to nag you about it and that should take the wind out of his sails!
Oh Ellie I wish! He obviously wasn't at work yesterday and hasn't been today. He just came by a few mins ago to pick up S15. When he walked in he said to S15 'is your mother in?' I hate it when he calls me that. I knew straight away he was in a bad mood. He came into the dining room, where I was sitting studying, and said' Just to let you know my L hasn't heard from yours yet'. I simply said 'I sent you an email yesterday'. His reply was 'I'm not interested in getting an email it's my L who wants to know' The look in his eyes was horrible. If we'd just had a blazing row I would've expected it to be there but we hadn't so I can only guess that he had just had one with OW. He stormed out of the room.
I continued to sit at the table and said in the loudest voice I could muster 'Hello Alison, how are you, can I discuss something with you please!' He never said anything else. S15 came and kissed me goodbye and I told him to enjoy himself with his dad (they are only going to the wholesale supermarket!).
I am so angry I am shaking right now.
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You're very good - I would have let son sort it out himself. lol
If I had he would've spent it by now
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15