my h didnt like nc either, he got back at me by doing more things with ow, hell he would have anyway. i do not think at one minute that nc prolonged his MLC. it took me many months to get it right. it allowed me to get a grip on me...and it allowed h to see...geesshhh...my life still sucks, uhmmm, its not her fault.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest