my h didnt like nc either, he got back at me by doing more things with ow, hell he would have anyway. i do not think at one minute that nc prolonged his MLC. it took me many months to get it right. it allowed me to get a grip on me...and it allowed h to see...geesshhh...my life still sucks, uhmmm, its not her fault.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest