Maybe looking at it negatively..this could be the REAL W and maybe I saw a different or "alien" W when I was married to her. Thats not good PMA or GALing, but more "thinking outside the box". It could happen..we, as humans, tend to do some strange things, dont we?
I think that you are attempting to do what many affairees do; to rewrite the past, to make themselves feel better about what they want to do now. and even more specifically, because you want to justify divorcing her to yourself.
It seems unreasonable to imagine that your wife was just "faking it", for 6+ years.
It is what she wants to be right now. Whether she will want to be the same way in 2 years, is anyone's guess.
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When does this end? Do I need to file for D to truly move on? Is that what God is telling me? "Leave this person to complete the trial, and then I will show you what true love is in a woman?"
you can "stand back" and let her do what she is going to do, without you being the one who divorces her. If you get into the mental mode where you've convince yourself that "God wants you to divorce your wife", just go reread Malachi 2:16 and Matthew 19:8
Last edited by Dom R; 03/15/0802:09 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
