WAW's PA over, but still wants Divorce

[Hope4us]

Thanks for the reply mac.

I've been out of town for work all week. Last weekend was really good between us. Thought for a few that maybe WAW was finally waking up. It's been almost 6 weeks since the end of the affair and after talking to a friend of mine that had an affair of her own years ago, she said that around the 5-6 week period after the end that she started looking at her husband differently. I thought for sure that's where WAW was. But then Monday, bam, right back to not communicating with me, basically ignoring me.

So I decided that while I was out of town I wouldn't contact her in any way. I talked to DS15 every night, but WAW made no effort to contact me at all. I got home last night and tried to engage her in a couple of conversations and either got one word answers or shrugs.

Can someone help me with what's going on here? Did our good weekend scare her with her feelings so she's drawing back from that? My friend thinks that her having a good weekend with me is really messing with her mind. She is convinced WAW is conflicted, that if she's having those feelings for me then the whole last year was a lie and she's struggling with the pain she's caused so she's pulled back.

I'm just continuing with GAL, no R talk, etc. DS19 comes home for spring break Wed and I'm looking forward to spending time with him while he's home. I'm also getting spring fever and really looking forward to doing some fishing and bird watching with DS15. Still no more D talk. Seems to me that if she was serious about that she would have done something by now. It's been almost 6 weeks since she mentioned it. Why wait if she's serious?