I know I don't have the answers, because I'm still searching for them myself. BUT, you have to do what feels right for you. In my sitch, I will not move towards D until my H deals with what is going on with HIMSELF. If D happens, it is his choice, and his responsibility and I have told him this.

My H is still at home, making everything so strange and like living a nightmare everyday. I know my H thinks D will be easy, and easier than facing his own issues. I refuse to let him do this his way.

Hang in there Hope, do what's best for you. Do something for YOU this weekend.

(((Hope)))


Me 45
M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08
D 18, D 14, S 12