Ali

Well done on making this step - I know it was a big one for you. Glad it made you feel better. In fact, if I remember last time you saw your L you felt reassured. Sometimes the idea of something is worse than it actually can be by this I mean that sometimes going to see the L can actually be a help in sorting things out more in your mind. Also, having done this your H will not be able to nag you about it and that should take the wind out of his sails! :-) Good news about the premium bond win. You're very good - I would have let son sort it out himself. lol