Hi Hope, Whoa...hang on to that inner strength of yours! Its inside of you.
Your H sounds like a MLC'er. He's also in denial. Further, if it was *true* love, why did he ponder to leave you? Secondly, if he *loves* Internet avatar, why would he lie about the reason for the D?
It amazes me how a person can jump from one relationship to another without ending the primary! If that person divorces, and marries another, s(he)'ll carry the problems INTO that new relationship. Therefore, same situation but different spouse. I doubt that his new R will last! Only time will tell. So brighten up! YOU are MORE precious than a home-wrecker.
Your choice is to go dark, GAL, and pray.
I'm so sorry to hear about H's speech last night. I know, the pain is surreal. However, he could change his mind. On the brighter side, you are wiser since this hell started.
I commend you for taking a stand for your marriage. It takes a virtuous, loving spouse to do so.
