Thanks Jeff. I just have to get through the next week. H plans on being around us a lot, and even mentioned that it was something that meant a lot of working to him, that he was really going to focus on being a family. We'll see what that means, what that brings.
As I told him, I know he's capable of better. Time will tell whether or not he can harness that or if he's followed him mother's footsteps and just given up. We really are products of our environment.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09