LRT UNDER SAME ROOF IIII

[craig54]

sandi, thank you for the words of encouragment. as far a me preaching to my wife. that has not happened. i have thought about it, but never broached the subject. i only answer a question when she asks one. sandi, you have been at this for a while. question, after many months did you find yourself falling out of love with your husband? yesterday, i looked at my wife,and thought to myself, i am beginning to fall out of love with her. i just sat next to my bed and prayed and cried. it scares me to think that it can be happening. it makes me sad also. if you do not feed love it will eventually die. the realization was very vivid and really made me ponder our situation. i have no intention of giving up. but i can see a change in the way i look at her. i know satan will try to use this. but he will fail.

sandi, my wife is so lost . she came home the last two nights and was in bed by 7:45. that is so not like her. the added pressure of her dad passing away and our situation is really taking a toll on her. let alone, the pressure at work. this morning i asked her if she wanted to talk about what has been bothering her. she said no. there is no anger, no harsh words. there is nothing. she acts like a zombie. it hurts to see her like this. i wish she would go talk to a counselor. but she apparently is not ready. she has no direction. i dont believe she thought this would turn out like it has. she is not happy. i have been dbing and praying constantly for our situation. i just need to keep my focus on the Lord. thanks for your thoughts.