Husband's Mid-Life Crisis

[addie]

Hi nlt,
I am so sorry to hear that your H has left to live with OW. He is living in a fantasy world right now. My H also has OW and we are separated so I know what you are going through. Nothing you say to him will make him change his mind so it's best to try to take your focus off H and focus on yourself. The OR is bound to fizzle out. I know how hard it is to just wait for that to happen but your best chance is to go on with your life, be the woman H fell in love with. When OR fails, he may start to realize how lucky he was to have you.
Hang in there and try to keep busy to get your mind off your sitch.