will keep that in mind hon. I started looking back, specially during the past 4yrs, how selfish he'd become, how it was all about him, even as I asked him (way in the past) that i rather have him help me around the house instead of buying expensive gifts for mom's/bdays he'd say jokingly "but I dont' want to do that!", and sure enough, he never helped much and hoped that by giving me gifts it would make up for it.
You must be very proud of my son, I hear you about being scared, my son is only 10 and talks about being a cop like his dad when he grows up, how he's going to see himself in "cops" every sat night, lol!, it scares me a bit, but if this is his calling i think he'd make one hell of a cop.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.