I am sorry you are feeling bad. Leave him alone for now. He changed his mind once, he can change it again. Move on, let go. No one knows what is going to happen.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11