Hurtmom, Don't stop posting ... even if you just use the site for journaling, you'll get some response.
I'm glad you're back home. But sad to hear your H is still in his fog. Keep up your PMA and the GAL. Beyond that, if you reach into the DB book, what else can you do? Think about those cheeseless tunnels ... setting some small goals. I know you were awy for a few weeks but you didn't really go dark on him did you? What about a possible LRT?
Does he know you saw an attorney? (That could work as a LRT.) If he knows you're not going to sit around and wait for him, that may get him off the fence.
Post some ideas ... it's good to get input from others.