Hey Essie...I was thinking about that conversation you had with your H a little while back...where he said he missed you all (?) and wanted to stay in touch more...do you think he was extending an olive branch? You have done such a good job at GAling and appearing upbeat etc to him, do you think he could be under the impression that you have "moved on" ? Seeing as you are not in contact as such..do you think it would be worth you now returning his call, taking a risk? Maybe he tried to tentively reach out to you and suggest keeping in touch, but then, was looking for something from you?

Maybe not, but I wonder if you dont have much to lose at this point and would it be worth taking a little risk and initiating some contact yourself? Ask how he is doing, would he like to come over and sort out those photos he was asking about...? Especially as you say you've become ambivalent about reconciling?

Just wondering! 2x2 me if needs be!

Ali xx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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