Thank you so much for responding. I stopped writing as much because I was not getting any response.
I got back from Florida 1 week ago. As far as I know H is still seeing OW, which he promised would be taken care of. H came over last fri, sat and sun to see our son but spent little time at the house. I am very disappointed in the fact that we were gone so long and he still dosent come over much to spend time with our son. He is missing out on so much. I have tried very hard to change. I think I came back in a much better state than when I left. H has told me that I look good, and he missed me. Gave me a huge the first day we saw each other. I have definately changed my attitude around him. NO more R talk, started dressing differently, going out and doing things with friends. when H asks where I am at I just say out with friends. I have noticed a change in his behavior since I have been home. Compliments me all the time on looking nice, wondering where I am at and who I am with. I went and saw an attorney on wed. just to see where things would stand and to talk about custody. I am not ready to give up but very discouraged. Although I have seen some change, he is still seeing OW and still being VERY selfish. He had not seen us in 6 weeks but left saturday and sunday early to go out with his friends, and never came over during the week.
Again although I have noticed some changes this has been going on for about 3 months and I'm growing tired of the situation very fast. H moved out end of dec. but always talks about "when I move home blah blah blah". He talks to friends and family and always says he is going "to make things right" that he wants to be back together, says the same to me but his actions do not show this. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
