Hey Jeff, I cant understand the time difference, I dont know it its tommorow there, or yesterday, or if you are in bed... but how are you getting on clearing out the bedroom? And what could yuo do to shock your W, as Lisa says? Get a reaction out of her? Do something amazing? Change your clothes in some way to make her notice you? Get a new haircut? Leave a pretty spray of flowers in her room on her dressing table?? Nothing strenuous! I thikn I asked you this before, about romancing her in small ways, but I dont remember if you answered or not. With the compliments, do you tell her she looks/smells nice? I guess I'm wondering if you make her feel like a woman, the one you wanted to marry? And would it/does it have any effect on her!?

Sorry if I am "probing" :-)

Ali
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Me: 37
H: 34
T: 9 years
ILYBINILWY: 2 Nov 07
Own apartment: 26 Jan 08


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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