Thanks for posting.. that you've done the same. I haven't said anything more than a hello to this man... well I've also said hello to his little boy... he came up and said something to me the other day so I responded with a "That's great!".
A part of me thinks there has been a change of heart in my H.. I can't be certain about it.. but it's just an intuition. He's contacting me a lot more. During the work week he calls nearly every day while I'm at work.. and he doesn't have to do that.. I know we're being friendly and all but he doesn't need to call me every day.. so it must mean that he wants to talk to me every day. When we spoke this morning I think he actually flirted with me.. It was nice. He was asking about D2 and I said that she's doing well but that she seems to be struggling a bit with the time change as she's very tired in the morning. I said that I have to take her out of her bed still sleeping to get her dressed for daycare. I said that she looks so peaceful, with her mouth hanging open to breathe.. and yet she's still so beautiful.. and he said of course she is.. her mommy looks just as beautiful sleeping and she's a mouth breather too.. Too which I laughed and said that I absolutely was not a mouth breather.. and we bantered back and forth.
He's been calling me Babe or Hun again.. but we haven't had any alone time.. like as in a date as of yet. I think if he initiates a few of those I will feel like we are moving in the right direction.. but for now I'm just focusing on my self help books and not bringing up any relationship talk or anything uncomfortable.
Oh, and he saw some listings of condos/lofts and he said that for now he'd rather we not sell.. because he sees what a wonderful home we have versus what's out there.
So, there is some positivity here.. hopefully it will continue.
W2G
PS.. I forgot to mention that I spoke with the boss today and it sounds like I should be getting my severance letter on Monday or Tuesday of next week.. and now the real self discovery begins.. exciting and a bit scary all at the same time!
