If you have children, enjoy the heck out of them. Don't stop being Mom/Dad, but show them every moment of every day that your love for them is capable of stopping bullets if necessary, and that it's as endless as the stars.
Make a budget.
Now make a real budget.
Take care of your finances. They probably took quite a hit during the "crazy" times, now it's time to straighten them out. Do what you have to do to live within your budget. Resist the temptation to celebrate your independence by indulging EVERY whim (though the occasional whim-dulgence is good for the soul).
I would echo exactly.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001