I have all kinds of cards I can pull like the breastfeeding one and all that stuff, but I am not interested in turning this into how much of a case can I build against him...because that will only result in him doing the same and that is not a place I want to go.
Girl...I am so proud of you. The best advice I had during my divorce, bar none....is children need all the people who love them (he was talking about their dad and other family. (This was given to me by the guy I dated shortly after my divorce, who became like a brother to me, his daughters became my daughters....or nieces....but their mom is not able to be a 'mom'....he has since passed away...)
You are doing the right thing. Honor the good relationships, minimize the drama. It will work out.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
