Yes, i have done the same. I have also been kinda flirty with the 25 year old at work and one other person who is close to my age. I agree i still stand for my marriage, but just to have someone to talk to, to show you attention. If either of them wanted to go out to dinner or a movie or just grab a drink. I would be all over it. But they seem not to be interested in me. For they know i am married, and i am not sure they know about h. I am pretty sure they do. Well one may but not both.
I have a ring that i bought (keep that in mind) when h and i were married like 10 yrs. I wear it as an anniversary band. Well as of the past weeks it is now on my right hand. I do sometime when h is around put it on my left, but mostly it sits on my right. Why do i do this, i could not tell you.
Maybe this man could turn out to be a nice friend, nothing more than that. YOu both have something in common. your kids.
Could you pop over to my stitch i want to post a question, need your opinion
bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce