Okay is it just me?? Or does anyone else find themselves checking out the ring finger when they see someone attractive? There's this "daddy" that picks up his son at the same time that I pick up my daughter from daycare. To be honest I don't recall ever seeing him until this week.. it makes me wonder if it's a new routine or if I was just in a much different head space before this week.. Anyway, he is SUPER attractive.. right down to the slight bit of silver on the sides around his ears.. and I noticed today that he wasn't wearing a wedding ring. He seems really good with his son too!
I'm still standing for my marriage but I'm not blind. A huge part of me actually looks at this guy and thinks under different circumstances he would be out of my league anyway.. but the new me is trying to think positively about myself.. and with that in mind.. under different circumstances I can see myself with a tall handsome, supportive, understanding and emotionally available man like him.
That's my thoughts for the moment.. just wanted to see how many people relate to the finger watching.