Thanks Sandi!

He already took of running.....twice. The day after Christmas he moved in with OW and then he came home for 5 whole days 5JAN-10JAN and left again. It was so strained all that time!

I think our talk this afternoon may have helped some (at least helped me). I can't walk around like I'm going to break apart but I think he may have realized that NOT talking to me about how he is feeling was leading both of us to shut down. I was afraid to talk to him because I was sure he was going to take it the wrong way or feel pressured and he wasn't talking to me about how he was feeling because he thought by saying anything to me he would hurt me badly again.

Keep up the good thoughts!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!