The department does have a staff psychologist but H doesn't like him. He thinks he's an arrogant a$$ who just talks to hear his own voice. He's also concerned that even though the talks are confidential there still could be some sort of backlash if he said something that made the psychologist diagnose him as depressed. That could put him in a desk job for heavens only knows how long and destroy his career.
That is true and I didn't even think about it. So, no, he doesn't need to do that. Maybe he could go to his doctor and get some AD meds to help for a while.
I am concerned about your health b/c you are walking around on egg shells afraid he will bolt and run any second. I think it is all a part of his MLC and the adjusting, etc. Evem though some don't agree that I went through a complete MLC, I went through "something" and I remember thinking some days that I would just take off running and never look back. However, I couldn't do it to my family. I hope he will be the same way toward his.
It is so hard on everyone concerned. My heart goes out to you. We are here for you whenever you need us.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
