What I find most difficult are the nights when she goes to a get together at her friends house. One of her gripes was that we didn't go out and mingle with other couples, or if we did I didn't hang around her enough. Of course, SHE didn't get involved socially with anybody until after she was 'done' with me.
So, she's going to a surprise birthday party at a friends house tonight and if we WERE a couple we'd have fun together and maybe her 'needs' would actually be fulfilled. So why is it that she doesn't do anything socially when we're together, complains about it, then does it NOW? Why is it she is unhappy about her weight, her body, complains about it, blames me for bringing home junk food, but now she's losing weight and getting healthy NOW?
I got to live with her when she was not happy. But I don't get to live live with her when she is doing what she needs to 'be happier'.
