Sorry, I'm confused. You said you are trying to get past the 'initial shock' of him moving out. But you say you have been separated for a year.

To me, 'separated' means someone has moved out. Was he a live-in separated husband?

I feel for you, however it is...separation is no fun.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!