LMAO! that's precious, om, they really do loose some marbles.
Yea, H was furious, he was saying "looks like you got a lawyer or something, you got all that stuff worked out!" I told him , and it is true, that I have not retained a L and that I have 2 friends who are legal advisors (AmyC and this other lady on a local online group). I would almost feel sorry for him since he thought he'd had it made with a nice investment in 13yrs, then again, he's the one asking for the D, most likely shacking up with the ho, and destroying what could've been a great M.
It is a D, it is bound to be uncomfortable, irritating and one must give and take, specially if we are doing mediation. He just called and told me he will have the house appraised by a real appraiser, I told him to go ahead, I doubt he'd get much more than what I got. He is STILL asking me if the debt, the big one he brought w/him from his first looney S are all his. ARGHHH!!! I will order those statements, he still can't believe he spent so much. HE was in the thick of MLC, so he spent hundreds in expensive restaurants, shoes, suits, electronic gadgets, etc etc, he has some nerve.
ANYways, he can think 'til his head explodes, there isn't much value in the house and that's the truth.
I did think about that BEth, even if I have to get a loan, I want his hands off the house. When all is said and done, after all the paperwork little by little with my family's help I'll make that place look so nice he'll eat his fingernails to the core when he sees it, lol!
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
